Married 20 years. Five kids. Multiple career paths. And a season where everything almost fell apart.

We were the couple who looked like we had it together. Inside, we were drowning — burned out, disconnected, stuck in patterns we couldn’t see, no matter how hard we tried to break them.

We tried therapy, coaching, books, podcasts. Some helped. Nothing lasted.

Then we finally saw what was actually going on — the patterns running our lives, the resources we’d been ignoring. Once we could see it, we could shift it.

That shift saved our marriage. Our health. Our family. Our sanity.

And here’s the part most people don’t say:

We’re still in the work — raising kids, navigating careers, pivoting, realigning, and growing through new seasons. We didn’t “arrive.” Transformation isn’t a finish line. It’s a way of living.

Now we help professional parents do the same — not because we learned it in a book, but because we’ve lived it, rebuilt it, and continue living it every day.